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There are few things more pleasurable in the bedroom than watching your girl take your sperm and happily gulp it all with a naughty smile.
The problem is that not all of them are willing to do it (especially not with a smile).
So how do you do it? How to get your girlfriend to swallow?
To succeed at this, you need to stop thinking about this as a man and start considering things from her point of view.
That means knowing what things not to do and figuring out answers to common objections about swallowing.
Things not to do
Don’t hold her head and try to force it
This will only strengthen her resolution not to swallow.
Not only that, but she will also resent you for trying to force her to do something she doesn’t want to do. Think about it this way – how would you feel if she grabbed your head and tried to force you to lick her pussy?
And even if she swallows this time, do you think she will do it again?
She might be so pissed off that she will not even give you a blowjob.
Just cum and don’t give her a warning
This can be a little like playing Russian roulette.
On the one hand, she might be totally cool with it and just swallow.
On the other hand, she might be so surprised that she spits out your sperm all over you.
In this day and age, I think most of the women expect at least a courtesy tap as a signal when you are about to cum.
Cum without a warning at your own risk.
Order her to swallow
Let’s be completely clear – this can work. I’ve personally done it repeatedly with great results. The problem is that you have to start your relationship in a strong, dominant manner – you can’t be a meek, unassuming boyfriend and then suddenly turn into an alpha male.
She will sense that your behavior is incongruent, and she will not swallow. That is setting a dangerous precedent – now she is less likely to swallow if you ask her again (even if you do it politely).
Common reasons for her not swallowing
Now with that out of the way, let’s look at some common reasons as to why don’t girls swallow and what can you do about it.
It tastes gross to her
This one is probably the easiest to fix. The taste of your sperm is heavily influenced by your diet – after all, you are what you eat. To improve the taste of your sperm try eating a lot of fruit the day or two before sex.
One fruit to pay special attention to is the pineapple. Eat a pineapple a few hours before the sex and your sperm will be so sweet she will suck you dry and swallow every little drop of your juice.
(Check out this article if you want to learn how to make your sperm taste better.)
She’s never done it before
Girls are sometimes afraid of trying out new things – she might screw up, it might taste bad, she might vomit, etc… You wouldn’t believe some irrational fears women can have about swallowing cum.
What you need to do is to frame it in a romantic and supportive way – You’ll be the first one to her, and you are there for her. It might sound silly to you, but she will appreciate the support. The key here is to frame it as a special thing between two of you.
She doesn’t want to feel like a slut
Some girls had a strict or religious upbringing, and they still have hang-ups in some areas of their life – swallowing cum is usually one of them. Or she could just be stuck up on that because other reasons – it doesn’t matter the strategy is the same.
Tell her you want her to swallow so you can stay inside of her after you cum because you think she’s so sexy and it will make you feel close to her.
You can also tell her that she’s fully accepting you when she swallows, as opposed to spitting which is symbolically a sort of rejection.
This is the similar romantic strategy as the one before, just much stronger.
Her biggest fear is feeling like a slut – so make the act of swallowing cum a romantic one, not a slutty one.
This is a simple mind shift, but it is extremely powerful. If she goes from seeing the act of cum swallowing as something that whores and sluts do to the romantic act that is bringing you two closer together (especially the part of you still inside of her) she will gladly swallow your sperm every single time.
What to do if she still won’t swallow?
Rome wasn’t built in a day. Keep gently bringing up the topic using the arguments above and eventually she will swallow your cum. It also helps if you can last longer during a blowjob because you then have more time to persuade her to swallow.
The great thing about this is, that once she’s swallowed your cum (and it tasted good) she is infinitely more likely to swallow again.
So do keep in mind that you’re not going to have to convince her to swallow every single time during your relationship – the first few times are the hardest, and the rest should be smooth sailing from there.
Good luck, and if you have any questions let me know in the comments.
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