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How to Last Longer During a Blowjob

how to last longer during a blowjob

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Why should you learn how to last longer during a blowjob?

Well, consider this (no doubt familiar) situation:

You’re lying down on your bed, eyes closed, with your pants down while your girlfriend is giving you one of the best blowjobs in your life. Her head is rhythmically moving up and down while she’s sucking your dick like there is no tomorrow.

You are enjoying yourself – a little bit too much. After a few minutes the all familiar feeling of ejaculation comes, and you’re done, without even getting to sex.

This situation is frustrating for so many reasons. On the one hand, you can’t control yourself, because it feels so damn good. On the other hand, you desperately wish you could last longer so that both she and you can enjoy sex free from your premature ejaculation.

To stop this, maybe you’ve tried some of the more creative tips found online. You know, such genius advice like watching TV during the act (because everyone wants to watch the Price is Right while getting a bj) or thinking about someone else (because there is nothing more fun than imagining getting a bj from a 350 lbs. woman).

Why even have sex or get a blowjob if you’re not going to enjoy it to the fullest?

Now, while I do go over on how to last longer during a blow job in more detail in my Secrets to Lasting Longer System, I’m going to give you some tips here.

How long should a blowjob last?

how long should a blowjob last

First let’s talk about how long should a bj last.

An average blowjob should last between 10-15 minutes. This is short enough so the girl’s neck and jaw don’t get cramped, but still long enough for you to fully enjoy all the pleasures of a blowjob. Of course it all depends on your lasting time, the girl and environment you are in – a bj in a elevator is certainly going to be quicker than a blowjob at your place where you can enjoy uninterrupted. 

Let’s say you are aiming to last 15 minutes during your next blowjob. Great – you can use the following tips to achieve that goal.

Best Position for a Blowjob

While there are a lot of positions you can receive a blowjob in – lying down, sitting in a chair, 69 – they are not all created equal. The best positions for a blowjob puts you in the control.

What is the best position to receive a blowjob?

Standing up while getting sucked.

That way you can control her tempo and sucking speed.

So if she tries to go to fast, and you get close to ejaculating, you can just slow her down and direct her to other parts, such as balls, etc.

Don’t be afraid to direct her to lick your surrounding areas, either by telling her or gently pushing her head towards the desired licking spot. Balls, inner thighs, whatever rocks your boat. She can also alternate between kissing, licking and sucking – this change in the rhythm will help you to last longer.

It is best if you stand near a bed so she can be comfortable while she’s giving you a bj. She can’t exactly give you a blowjob out of this world if she is trying to ignore the pain in her knees from kneeling on a floor.

Much better that she sits or kneels on the soft, cushy bed so she can dedicate 100% of her attention to pleasing you.

Not only that, but you will have much easier time to convince her to swallow if she is comfortable.

Pay Attention To Tension

Secondly, and this is crucial, try paying attention to your entire body while you’re receiving a bj.

If you focus on your entire body, from head to toes instead of just your dick, you will realize that you are tense all over.

Pay special attention to muscle tension in your glutes and legs – those are muscles closely connected to ejaculation.

This tension is causing you to ejaculate prematurely.

This is true for regular, during the sex ejaculation too – so if you want to learn how to last longer in bed naturally, pay close attention.

Don’t try to check the body tension when you are close to an orgasm – you won’t have the time to stop yourself from ejaculating.

Instead, every few minutes check your body and try to gauge exactly how tense you are. Some tension is normal, but if it is over the top take a few deep breaths to relax.

Here’s a quick breathing tip you can use to lower the tension and thus last longer during a bj – for every 2 normal breaths you take, take a 3 deep ones. That way you can alternate between excitement and relaxation.

Conclusion

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Using just these few tips is more than enough to learn how to last longer during a blowjob and get on with the good stuff.

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