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Masturbating Before Sex: Yay Or Nay?

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Premature ejaculation sucks.

There’s no arguing about that.

Failing to satisfy your woman is the worst thing a man can experience.

If you have that problem, you’ll do everything you can to fix it.

Which brings us to today’s topic:

Is masturbating before sex a good idea?

Well, it depends.

How Much Longer Will You Last In Bed?

If you jerk off before sex then yes, in most cases you will last longer in bed.

That’s because it takes much longer to achieve a second orgasm than it does the first one.

After you have an orgasm, you go into so-called “refractory stage” during which your erection loses its strength and you become temporarily insensitive to stimulation.

Now, just how much longer can you last after masturbating?

Well, it depends on multiple factors, but usually you can expect to last between 3-5 times longer than usual.

So if you normally last ~5 minutes in bed, you can expect to last anywhere from 15 to 25 minutes the second time.

Sounds amazing, right?

Not so fast hotshot.

It’s not all roses and rainbows.

Do You Have Erection Problems?

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How hard are your erections?

Unless you answered “hard as a rock” you might want to rethink masturbating before having sex.

That’s because if you have weak erections, you might not be able to get it up when it comes time to have sex.

And while premature ejaculation sucks, erectile dysfunction is much, much worse.

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How Old Are You?

Age is another important factor you need to take in the consideration.

Generally speaking, the older you are the more time you’re going to need to “recover” from blowing your load.

So if you’re over 30 I’d suggest you masturbate 1-2 hours before sex.

If you’re a young guy in his twenties, you can get away with masturbating just 30 minutes before sex.

All Things In Moderation

There’s an important thing to remember about masturbation before sex:

Don’t overdo it.

The worst thing that can happen is that you start to jerk off every single time before you’re have sex.

That way, not only does your physical problem remain, you’ll also develop performance anxiety.

Listen, I’ll be honest with you:

If you’re researching whether you should masturbate before sex or not, it means that you have a serious problem with premature ejaculation.

It’s not an easy thing to admit to yourself, but it’s the truth.

Now, you can masturbate before sex, use different sex positions, and prolong foreplay…

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