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There are few hobbies a man can have that are as pleasurable as masturbation.
And while the good old fashioned way of doing it – a quick three-minute session while watching porn – is good, it’s important to add some variety to your masturbation sessions and try other masturbation techniques.
Keep in mind that there are many masturbation techniques for men, these are just the best ones.
And while the good old fashioned way of doing it – a quick three-minute session while watching porn – is good, it’s important to add some variety to your masturbation sessions and try other masturbation techniques. Keep in mind that there are many masturbation techniques for men, these are just the best ones.
First, let’s talk about the right setup for perfect (or close to perfect) masturbation session.
This may sound obvious, but you should choose a quiet location where you won’t be disturbed. The last thing you want to worry about while you are bringing yourself to ecstasy is someone barging in and messing up your whole experience.
Set aside at least half an hour for the session. While you can have a good time with only a few minutes to spare, the REAL pleasure lies pass the 5-minute mark. While you may finish earlier, it’s good to set a chunk of time aside to experiment and find out what gives you the maximum amount of pleasure.
Next (and this will surprise most of you) DO NOT watch porn. Strange advice coming from an ex-porn star, but trust me, porn is engineered to make you addicted to it.
It is also causing millions of men around the world all kinds of problems, from erectile dysfunction to premature ejaculation. The best thing you can do for your sex life is to cut out porn completely.
“What? But how am I supposed to get aroused?” will probably be your first thought after reading the previous paragraph. The answer is you do it as they did in medieval times (you know, before the Internet) – with your imagination.
With just your thoughts, hands and some lubricant you can have the most incredible sexual experience of your life – if you know what you’re doing, that is.
But enough teasing, let’s dive right into the best masturbation techniques for men:
1. Just the Tip
Grab your lubricant and lubricate your thumb, index finger and middle finger. Now use those three fingers to touch lightly just the head of the penis. How much pressure you apply will depend on how sensitive you are, so experiment with lighter/stronger touch and with speed – slower/faster stroking. The head of the penis has an enormous amount of nerve endings, so this will be quite a pleasurable experience for you.
2. Edging: A Marathon, Not A Sprint
Edging is not only one of the most fun masturbation techniques there is, but it is also one of the best ways to cure premature ejaculation.
It works like this: You masturbate as you would normally do; you just do it for half an hour without ejaculating. You change the tempo as you go from one arousal level to another, but don’t finish until the time is up (set a timer for 30 minutes and have fun.)
How does this help with premature ejaculation? If you think about it, masturbation can be seen as training for sex. If you have a quickie 5-minute session and then ejaculate, you’re subconsciously sending a signal to yourself that this kind of behavior is desirable, and that you should also do it in the bedroom with your girlfriend.
If, on the other hand, you train yourself to last 30 minutes when you’re alone, you will more likely than not have the same experience when having sex.
3. Mix Cold With Heat
Before beginning with masturbation, have a bowl of ice next to you. Then, when you are feeling ready to finish, grab the ice in your other hand. The heat from your penis combined with the cold from the ice will give you an experience you will remember for a long time.
4. Change Positions
Most men masturbate in the same position every time. Why not switch it up?
If you usually masturbate lying down, stand up. If you do it while sitting in the chair, try kneeling on your bed. There are a lot of positions you can masturbate in, and while some of them will feel ridiculous, and you will never repeat them, you never know in which position you might experience the ultimate pleasure.
5. Don’t Forget the Balls
It is strange that men will do every masturbation trick to squeeze an additional ounce of pleasure from their penis, but completely ignore their balls. That’s not a wise move, considering that there are as much nerve endings in the testicles as there are in the penis.
Next time you’re close to the ejaculation, try pulling down on your testicles in a specific rhythm and see what that does for you.
P.S. These techniques are fun to try out, but they will not (except edging) make you last longer. You should check out my Secrets To Lasting Longer guide if you want to last longer in bed and beat premature ejaculation.