Have you ever watched a porn clip and wondered: how do pornstars last so long?
You’re not alone. When people hear that I’m an ex-porn star that’s usually one of the first questions they ask me. (right after asking me if I had sex with XYZ porn actress.)
In fact, I get asked this question so often that I decided to create an entire step-by-step program on how to last longer in bed naturally.
I understand some guys don’t want to buy my program. They’re not ready to take their sex life to the next level, and that’s okay, it’s not for everyone. For everyone who doesn’t want to buy my program, but wants to know how porn stars last so long, I created this free resource to dispel the myths and once for all explain our secrets.
I’ll detail not only the specific techniques we use to last longer in bed, but I’ll also tell you which advice we do NOT follow, and why not.
Truth is – there’s a lot of BS out there trying to explain how pornstars last so long. These articles are most often written by haters who’ve never worked a day in the porn industry. They want you to think it’s all tricks, that there’s no way you can last as long as pornstars.
They’re wrong, and after reading this guide, you’ll understand why.
Let’s dive right in and , start with some common “last longer” advice that we don’t follow.
BS Advice #1 – We Don’t Think About Baseball
This is the first thing people hear from their buddies when they start looking for advice on how to beat premature ejaculation. Even worse, all the internet gurus love to talk about how great this technique is.
For the unaware, this technique is where you think about things other than sex in order to last longer. Specifically, you think about something boring and unarousing, that’ll turn you excitement down a notch.
To do this, you think about baseball, do some math problems, or even imagine that you’re having sex with a fat, ugly, old, wrinkly, girl (yeah, really) to lower your arousal levels and last longer in bed.
The main problem with that advice?
You don’t get to enjoy the sex!
You’re trying to actively block your mind from being in the moment. I don’t know about you, but I like to think about sex and savor every minute of it. – Sex is truly a blessing, and I don’t want to waste my time doing multiplication in my head while screwing.
This advice is so prevalent that a couple of other guys and I always chuckle when somebody asked us how we last so long. I didn’t choose porn as a career because I wanted to imagine that I was getting blown by a fatty – and you shouldn’t do that either.
Can you imagine what it’s like being a porn star, having sex for 30 plus minutes a day on camera, with some of the hottest girls around……..while thinking about baseball? Hell no.
There you go – you can go back to thinking about sex while you’re having sex. orget about this advice and make fun of any guy who suggests it.
BS Advice #2 – We Don’t Practice The Start-Stop Method
This is a funny one that is often recommended by the sex therapists and sex advisors.
(By the way, have you noticed that all those “sex experts” always look like the people who don’t get laid at all? Or are at least 200 years old?)
Basically, with this method you pull out your dick when you feel you’re about to come. You pump and pump and pump, until you’re at that final stroke…then you stop, right before you orgasm.
The other way to do this is called “the squeeze technique.” This is done by having sex until you’re close to orgasm, but instead of just STOPPING, you SQUEEZE. Take your thumb and index finger, like you’re doing the “OK” sign, and squeeze your penis right below the head. This will stop the flow of cum and halt your orgasm.
Both of these techniques suck because you’re stopping sex every few minutes. I don’t have to tell you that your wife or girlfriend will not appreciate that (especially if she’s near an orgasm and you pull out – good luck with that).
Can you imagine the look on her face? You’re getting hot and heavy, she’s moaning and going crazy on your dick, she’s about to reach the holy orgasm when…RED LIGHT, you slam on the brakes and and pull out.
This technique has the same problems as the baseball technique – namely, you’re depriving yourself of the pleasure of actually having sex.
That’s not what you want. You want sex to be the highlight of your week, an amazing experience you share with your wife or girlfriend. This is not the time to be stopping, or thinking about baseball.
Instead, improve your sexual skills so the experience can become even more mind-blowing. If you can last longer in bed, not only will you be able to enjoy it and have better orgasms, but your woman will enjoy it more too.
BS Advice #3 – We Don’t Use Any Additional Gear
If you browse the internet long enough, you’ll find websites claiming pornstars use special products to last longer. There are hucksters all over the internet trying to sell you on this “one weird trick” to lasting longer. They want you to believe that pornstars use secret “tools of the trade” to deliver performance beyond what the average man can do.
Feeling desperate, many men start buying these various devices, pills, creams, or last longer condoms of dubious FDA status. They risk their health and waste their money on snake oil products that promise the world but deliver…nothing.
I mentioned the dangers of using last longer condoms before. But that’s only the tip of the iceberg.
Most of those products will just drain you out of your money and do nothing. Even worse, a few of them (especially pills) can have devastating effects on your health and wellbeing.
Now, I’m not going to lie and tell you those guys in porn don’t use this stuff. They do. I did it as well when I was younger.
The problem is that products and gear only go so far. The side effects catch up and end up biting you in the ass. Using a pill or cream is only a band aid – they cover up the problem, but don’t cure it.
Most of those guys burn out in a couple of years when they realize they can’t sustain that for the rest of their lives.
That’s what it all comes down to – do you want to take a (potentially dangerous) pill and just last longer this one time, or do you want to learn how to do it naturally and beat your premature ejaculation forever?
If you answered “pills,” then go ahead and risk your money and health.
Can’t say I didn’t warn you.
If you answered “beat your premature ejaculation forever,” then it’s time to get to work. Let’s talk about what porn stars actually use to become better lovers, once and for all.
The skills and stamina I built in the porn industry have stayed with me for life, and I’d like to share them with you.
Lasting longer in bed is no easy task, it takes a lot of work, but the results are completely worth it. Imagine what your life will be like if you could last as long as you want in bed, if you were in charge of your orgasm, and not the opposite.
Sounds good right?
It’s not only good, it’s life-changing. I’ve taken guys from hating sex and actually avoiding it, for fear of embarrassment, to being crazed casanovas whose partners are begging for more.
If that sounds like something you want, let’s get started.
Pornstar Tip #1: Kegels
When I first heard of Kegels, I just thought they were those exercises that women use to tighten their pussy.
Well, I was half-right. The truth is that men too can use Kegel exercises not only to last longer in bed but also to shoot sperm like a fire hose.
(Check out this article if you want to learn how to shoot sperm like a pornstar.)
For those who don’t know, kegel exercises work the PC muscles. These are the muscles that surround the base of your penis. They’re responsible for controlling the flow of pee and semen out of the penis.
Most guys don’t think about these muscles, and only train their biceps and triceps. This is a grave mistake. If you want to be a better lover, you have to strengthen your kegel muscles.
Most guys don’t even practice kegels exercises, so their PC muscles shrink and become useless. Our goal is to build these muscles up to the point that you can control your orgasm.
To do this, you must practice kegel exercises outside of sex. You see, the way it works is that practicing and doing Kegel exercises every day for a few minutes, your PC muscle grows stronger.
Once it becomes strong enough, you can that squeeze it when you feel an orgasm approaching and just continue with sex. No pulling out, no imagining a fat, hairy beast, no squeezing necessary.
If you’ve never done kegel exercises before, don’t worry, they’re pretty easy. Once you learn how to do them, you can practice them anytime and anywhere. It’s actually fun, and a good way to distract yourself during a boring class or meeting.
The best way to find your PC muscle is to stop your urine flow when you’re urinating. The muscle you squeezed then (with nothing but your mind) is the PC muscle.
Remember, the same muscles that stop pee also stop semen. If you can stop semen, you’ll stop your orgasm, and keep having sex.
PC muscles are just like every other muscle in your body. You have to train them intelligently and also let them rest. For beginners, a simple Kegel routine would be:
- Locate your PC Muscle
- Squeeze it
- Hold for a few seconds
- Release the squeeze
Repeat this for 10 reps, and take a break, this is a set. Do three sets and call it quits. Do this routine three times a week until you can progress onto a more advanced routine.
Once your muscles are stronger, it’s time to add some difficulty. There are two advanced techniques I’ll go over today.
One is extended squeezing. In order to strengthen your muscles, squeeze the muscle for as long as you can, then rest for 15 seconds. Do this 5 times, making sure to count how long you’re able to squeeze. Practice this and over the next few weeks, you’ll be able to squeeze much longer.
The next is quickfire kegels. Take a stopwatch, and set it for 30 seconds. Start the timer, and then try to do as many kegels as possible, squeezing your muscle rapidly one after another.
Count how many reps you get, and just like squeezing, you’ll see gains over time. Getting better at these exercises will definitely make you be able to control your orgasm better in bed.
If you want to really last longer in bed, you have to practice. Here’s how.
Pornstar Tip #2: Edging
You’re not alone if you’ve never heard of edging.
It’s not that popular as Kegels, but, in my mind, it’s much more effective.
Edging simply means that you are masturbating for a very long time, usually anywhere between 20 and 40 minutes, without ejaculating during that time.Your goal is to prolong the amount of time you can last in a highly aroused state.
By practicing lasting longer while masturbating, you train yourself to last longer in bed.
The problem with a lot of guys is they don’t practice having enough sex. To make matters worse, when they jack off, they just try to get it done as fast as possible. They don’t want anyone to catch them in the act, so they squeeze it out real quick and get on with their day.
This is bad, and trains you to be a two pump chuck. If you want to last longer, you have to practice.
The way to do this is to climb “the arousal ladder.” Imagine an arousal scale going from 1 to 10.
Level 1 is where you’re not even slightly excited, and level 10 is where you are milliseconds away from an orgasm.
During sex, your goal is to get to level 7 and stay there for the entire time. Anything below, and you risk losing your erection. Anything above, and you could blow your orgasm.
How do you know what the different levels feel like? That’s where edging comes in.
Think of edging as sort of a boot camp for the real thing. Just like MMA fighters train with punching bags and sparring partners before stepping into the octagon, so should you practice edging as a practice for sex with your wife or girlfriend.
Now, most guys ask me if they should ejaculate at the end of their edging session or not.
My answer is: It depends.
Some guys ejaculate only once a week, and they are fine with that. Others find that if they don’t come at the end of every session, they will last even shorter the next time they have sex. Other guys find that if they orgasm too much while edging, they can’t get it up with their wife.
So, my advice to you is to try to experiment and find out what is the best situation for you. There is no one size fits all solution.
If you want to learn more about edging, check out the ultimate guide I wrote about edging here.
Pornstar Tip #3: The Right Positions
Believe it or not, there are good sex positions and bad sex positions.
Good sex positions are those where you are fully in control of your ejaculation and can last as long as you want to. These are ones where you can pump away for hours, loving the moment, without worrying about orgasm.
Bad sex positions are the ones where you are quickly aroused and ready to ejaculate within a few minutes.These are the ones that will tip you over the edge as soon as you put it in her. Avoid unless you want to come.
Now, most male porn stars can have sex in every position possible.
We are, after all, trained professionals.This is made possible through disciplined practice of kegels and edging.
Even then, we still prefer a few positions when it comes to lasting longer. We save the rest for when it’s time for the money shot.
The worst position for premature ejaculation? It’s the missionary position. You’re on the top; you’re working hard, and your PC muscle is overstimulated. All of the blood flow is rushing from your body (the highest point) to your dick (the lowest point).
It’s no wonder you’re ready to pop after two minutes.
Now, if the man-on-top is the worst sex position…is the reverse also true? Is woman-on-top the best sex position for lasting longer?
Why, yes, yes it is.
If you want to last longer, try beginning the intercourse with the cowgirl position. It will instantly grant you at least a few more minutes in bed, plenty of time for you to try out some other tricks for lasting longer.
P.S. After getting thousands of emails from guys all over the world asking me to teach them how to last longer in bed, I decided to do something about it.
I created my Secrets to Lasting Longer system – the world-renowned step-by-step guide teaching men how to last longer in bed naturally and beat premature ejaculation forever.