Let’s be honest now – you don’t want to be just average in bed.
You want to be the best your girl has ever had.
You want to be so good that she can’t stop thinking about you.
You want to learn how to make her beg for sex not only because your own vanity (well, maybe just a little) but because then you know you are giving her one of the best sex experiences she has ever had.
And why wouldn’t you want to learn how to make her beg for sex? The benefits are great for both of you.
She gets to have the best sexual experience of her life, and you get the peace of mind knowing she is not out there cheating on you.
When most guys try to improve their sex skills, they mostly focus on the new techniques and unusual sex positions, thinking that a mere change in the routine will lead to mind-blowing orgasms for her.
While there are some new things you can try that will blow her mind (like different thrusting techniques), it’s generally not that easy.
What most men fail to understand is that, for women, sex happens in their mind first, body second.
All the techniques and positions in the world will do nothing for you if you don’t stimulate both her mind AND her body.
There are two ways you can do that: outside the bedroom and inside the bedroom.
Outside of The Bedroom
This part deals with stimulation of her mind.
When you are outside of the bedroom you have to paint a picture in her mind of the hot, steamy, sweaty sex marathon you two are going to have later. You want to get her so horny she can’t wait to run home and let you fuck her brains out.
Building anticipation is the name of the game here. You want to start slowly and then build the tension up.
This is doubly true if you never did anything like this before and you limited your sex talk to the bedroom. When in doubt remember – first walk, then run.
One of the best ways you can build anticipation with is sexting. Text messages can be used as a devastating weapon in creating a burning sexual desire in your girl.
The key with sexting is to be suggestive enough to peak her imagination, but vague enough to let her fill in the blanks with her fantasies.
If you describe to her exactly what you want to do with her you kill all the suspense.
On the other hand, if you are vague enough, she will fill in the details with her own fantasies (which are hundred times more powerful in getting her turned on than anything you could have written).
Another way to make her go crazy for you is with some soft dirty talk (save the hard stuff for the bedroom).
You can have a lot of fun here too – for an example, when you are with your girl in a public space, whisper in her ear all the freaky, kinky stuff you want to do to her that night. She will get wet, but because you’re in a public space she can’t just jump you right here and there.
Just keep building the tension, so when you do find yourself alone with her, she will beg you to fuck her.
Finally, there are always physical techniques. They are especially great for push-pull tactics.
What do I mean by those?
Well, push-pull tactics are when you are behaving in one way, but then instead of escalating you suddenly start behaving in the complete opposite.
For an example, you start making out with a girl, but instead of going on you pull back and then resume conversation in a normal way.
Or start turning her on in a public space, then stop and say “No, I can’t get you wet, you have to be a good girl” …and then continue 5 minutes after that.
You push with one behavior….then pull back.
Push…and pull back.
They can be used in any number of ways: physical, sexting, dirty talking, during sex, etc.
Push-pull routines work so well because the girl never knows what to expect and that suspense is a huge turn on for her.
Inside Of The Bedroom
To get her addicted to you there are several things you must do in the bedroom:
Be Freaking Awesome In Bed
If you are not great in bed then nothing else will matter. Get that handled first.
If you can’t last at least 30 minutes in bed, how do you think you are supposed to rock her world? True, sometimes a quickie will be enough, but those are an exception, not a rule.
If you want to last longer in bed and rock her world be sure to check out my Secrets To Lasting Longer system.
Tease Her During Sex
Use those push-pull tactics we talked about before here.
Bring her to the brink of an orgasm, and then pull back.
Start pounding her as fast as you can, then abruptly slow down.
If she’s near an orgasm and you are slowing down, make her beg for it. Make her say “Pretty please.”
Always be in control.
The key to making her beg you for sex is to tease her enough to make her go crazy, but at the same time remain in control of yourself.
Always try to be one or two degrees cooler than she is on the horniness scale.
This will drive her wild because you are not on her level on horniness, and she will do everything in her power to bring you there.
Use that. It doesn’t matter if it’s over the phone or in the bed. Using push-pull tactics and remaining cool is the key to getting her addicted to sex with you.
The skill of learning how to make her beg for sex is a skill that only a small number of men will learn, but it is well worth the effort.
P.S. I cover a lot more sex techniques in my guide, Secrets To Lasting Longer. Check it out.