First of all, if you want to learn how to tell if a girl is faking it, you have to let go of your ego if you want to improve things.
The truth is that it is well known that the partners who have the best sex are VERY communicative. If the girl you are with fakes an orgasm, it simply means that there’s a lot of room for improvement in the communication department.
One of the reasons why she fakes it could be that she simply has trouble having an orgasm and is embarrassed about it.
So, don’t take it personally. The quicker you let go of your own ego, the better – the better the communication will be, the better the sex will be.
There was only one time in my life when I knew for sure that the girl was faking it. It was a one night stand, and I wasn’t feeling very good, so I wasn’t 100% myself. I didn’t want to tell her that I wasn’t feeling good because she was very hot and regardless, I was very horny.
It started off great, but I simply got too tired half way through, which really changed everything.
Towards the end of our encounter, it became apparent that she was having trouble cumming. So, I went down on her to see if I could get her to cum through oral.
Within just a minute of so, she let out this little squeal sound and tried to act like she had an orgasm. It was totally pathetic! I know when a woman has an orgasm because there are lots of signs when they do, and she had NO sign, other than her extremely weak acting performance.
But I understood. She suddenly wasn’t feeling into it as we were in the beginning, and she wanted to leave. After her fake orgasm, she was out the door in under 5 minutes!
So, you don’t always need to get down to the bottom of why a woman fakes an orgasm – especially if it is a one night stand. It all depends upon the situation. But it is best to KNOW when they are faking it, so that you can use that information for your own good.
There was a study done by the University of Chicago in 1994 entitled “Sex in America” and they found out that only one-third of women always had an orgasm during sex.
So it is quite common that women DON’T have an orgasm during sex. Usually it is the younger women who struggle to have an orgasm because they are inexperienced and haven’t learned to really let their inhibitions go with any guy. Don’t let that bother you – it’s pretty normal.
So, how to tell if a girl is faking it in bed?
Let’s divide the answer into two parts: 1. How she acts, and 2. How her body responds.
How She Acts
If your woman isn’t in the mood but has sex with you to appease you, you can be pretty darn sure that you’re setting her up to fake an orgasm. Again, this is why communication is vital. So if she doesn’t want any foreplay and just wants to get it over with, that’s a pretty good sign that she’s going to fake it!
Or, if you sense that her mind isn’t there, and you catch her glancing at her watch or the clock, she’s probably about to fake it.
Other signs are if she starts to nit pick and starts to complain about something about you. Those are usually signs that she really doesn’t want to have sex, and she just wants to get it over with.
In addition, if you are in a real relationship, and you notice that your girlfriend always seems to cum just in time for her favorite TV show, that too is a good sign that she’s faking it!
Also, most women, just after having a good orgasm, will want to savor the moment and rest with you in bed for a few minutes. If she gets up real quick and makes some kind of excuse, she’s probably faking it.
But besides how she acts, there is a better way to tell if she is faking it. And that is to notice how her body responds.
How Her Body Responds
The easiest way to tell if a woman is faking an orgasm is by noticing what happens inside her vagina. When a woman has an orgasm, her pussy walls will contract uncontrollably, and be in timing with the rest of her body contractions. You should feel her contract on your cock or fingers, depending upon how you are fucking her.
Just before she has her orgasm, her breath will increase, her heart rate will raise, her pupils will dilate, and she may suddenly start to perspire.
All of these are indications of a REAL orgasm and they cannot be faked.
The other thing that you can notice is that her clit will get larger and harder than normal, and her pussy lips will get redder. Even her lips that she uses to suck your cock will get redder too.
These are all indications that she is having a real orgasm. Another thing that you can notice is that for most women, their nipples get harder, larger and erect, and even their breasts will increase some in size.
But every woman is a bit different, so use this as a guideline and not a rule.
Most women arch their back when they orgasm, and/or they point their toes. The other thing to look out for is uncontrollable twitches in her legs and sometimes arms, or all over her body. It also depends upon how good her orgasm is. In general, the more she responds, the better it is.
There are so many things that you can look out for.
Her cheeks may turn red, and she may have uncontrolled facial expressions which is kind of like an expression of shock and ahhhhh all at the same time – that’s called the “orgasm face!”
The other MAIN THING to tell if a woman has just had an orgasm is that nearly all of them will have an extremely sensitive clit. If you were to touch it directly, it would be way too much for her. So, the normal reaction she will have right after a good orgasm is that she won’t want you to touch her clit anymore, especially if you were to pull her clit hood back and lick or touch it.
The bottom line is this – don’t let your ego get in the way of having open, honest communication with your girl about sex. The key is to not judge her for WHATEVER she says.
That’s really all you have to do in order solve this problem.