Do you think you have a big dick?
Most guys believe one of two things:
- “Yeah man, I have a HUGE dick!”
- “No, my penis is tiny.”
Well, what do the numbers say, and what can statistics tell us about sexual satisfaction?
You might be surprised when you find out what women really want.
Let’s start by answering the question, “Is Six Inches Small?”
Numbers Don’t Lie
To start, let’s discuss the stats.
At the time of writing, the average penis length is 5.16 inches, and the average girth (circumference) is 4.69 inches. This comes from worldwide studies, not my own.
If your dick is six inches long, you might think you’re doing pretty well since you’re “above average,” right? Well, let me introduce you to the vagina…
Vagina size varies just as much as penis size.
According to research, the average vaginal length is between 3 and 4 inches. The problem with vaginal measurements is that, just like the penis, the vagina expands when aroused, up to 200%. Based on those numbers, the average aroused vagina measures in at 6-8 inches.
What does that mean for men? That means that if you want to really please the average woman, your dick should be at least six inches.
“Mike, do I really need my penis to be as long as her vagina?” Yes, and the reason why has to do with her orgasm. See, there are actually five types of female orgasms, and once you understand them, it’s clear for you to see why you need a bigger dick.
Now that we know the numbers, let’s get back to the age old question…
What Do Women Want?
We know the average penis is about five inches, but is that enough?
To answer that, you have to understand how the nerves in a vagina work. See, vaginas and penises are very different (obviously).
Men get pleasure by rubbing the nerves on the outside of the penis against something else.
Women have the same pleasure pathway, but in reverse. Their vaginas are lined with millions of nerves, that when rubbed against, send pleasure signals to the brain.
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to calculate that the more surface area you touch…the more nerves you’ll interact with…the more pleasure you’ll bring to your partner.
Therefore having a 5” penis might be “average,” but it won’t work optimally.
Bigger D for Bigger O’s
As discussed earlier, a bigger penis will help you make your partner orgasm more. Specifically, you’ll make her orgasm through the G-Spot and Deep Spot (learn the difference here).
Both of these are possible with a smaller penis, but the odds are lower, especially for the deep spot. This spot is completely unreachable unless you are able to push your penis right to the end of her vagina.
Another reason to have a bigger dick is GIRTH.
Even if your penis is long, girth is what really pushes girls over the edge of orgasm.
In two studies, 90% of women said that girth matters more than length. This confirms that they need length…AND GIRTH…to orgasm. They wouldn’t answer that they like it…if they didn’t like it.
On the other hand, it is possible to have a dick that’s too big.
Crashing The Party
Working in the porn industry, I hung out with a lot of “well endowed” men. Like women do, we talked about our sex lives in explicit detail.
Talking with my other male pornstar friends, we all had the same issue: some girls couldn’t handle our dicks. The porn girls are completely used to it, but for normal girls, it could be too much.
Personally, I’ve had plenty of encounters, on and off screen, where I can’t go completely balls deep at the risk of hurting the girl.
I didn’t think this was possible until I started growing my dick. That’s when I found it’s possible to go so deep that you crash against a girl’s cervix. I don’t know what it feels like, but I’ve heard that it feels like getting kicked in the nuts.
Now imagine if you get kicked in the nuts while having sex. Not fun!
This is why I think it’s important to have realistic expectations. Porn, as much as it’s benefitted me, has had some negative consequences. Now everyone in the world wants a 20 inch python in their pants that can shoot gallon-sized loads.
Spoiler alert, a lot of the MONSTER dicks you see in porn (12 inches and longer) are fake. You can buy dildos online that you put on your penis to have sex with.
The rest of the guys are genetic freaks, born with God-given length (and enhanced with practice). No one goes from six inches to twelve inches without surgery.
However, you can definitely grow your penis, just don’t expect 8 inches of growth.
The Long And Short Of It
So, what exactly is the ideal penis length?
Well, based on the numbers, let’s put it like this.
The average vagina is 6 inches long. You should be able to go balls deep in the average girl, and more. Let’s say you want to go balls deep in most girls, that would mean your dick should be 7 inches long.
You might say, “well why don’t I just grow my dick 4 inches?”
Slow down, it’s not so easy.
Believe me, I worked in porn, where men’s paychecks were dependent on their dick size (and how long they could last).
My co-workers did everything they could to grow their penises, and none of them were able to grow 4 inches.
Realistic growth, using all the tricks and tools in the world, will be two inches. 2 inches is a totally achievable goal, but only if you do it right.
Some men go down the rabbit hole and hurt themselves, trying to stretch their dick out, using odd gadgets and doo-hickeys.
Don’t waste your time and money.
If you really want a bigger penis, you need to be patient.
If you rush and bunch of stuff they promote online, you might even cause yourself some damage that WON’T be good for your friend down there.
I’m talking about pills,pumps,surgeries, etc…
This is not a joke when it comes to your penis.
That’s why I strongly recommend to check my full guidance and thoughts about having a Bigger Penis.