Did you know you’ll spend 117 days having sex in your lifetime?
That’s only if you have sex once a week. This also doesn’t count if you a short refractory period and can have sex multiple times an hour.
Since you spend so much time having sex, don’t you want all that time to be rewarding?
Imagine a world where sex is the highlight of your week (or day). Where every session is an insane bonding experience between you and your partner.
Where both of you are transported to another dimension, united in the ecstasy of love.
That’s what author Alex Allman describes when he talks about sex. Sounds amazing, right?
As a “sex coach”, I’m regularly browsing the internet, looking for what my competition is doing out there.
Most of what you’ll find is BS, written by basement-dwelling virgins who have never touched a female nipple besides their moms’.
When I first found Alex Allman, I heard him talk on his website and instantly knew he was the real deal. As a man who’s had a lot of sex, I could tell Alex is a certified Casanova. “It takes one to know one”, right?
Now that I’m married, I’m always looking for new things to try in bed. I stumbled upon Alex’s website and had to buy his book, Revolutionary Sex.
I’ll admit, my time in the porn industry led to a skewed perception of sex. Thanks to porn style pounding, I’m not a very passionate lover. I consider myself elite level at sex, but sex god? I’m not too sure if I have every skill needed to be a sex god.
I’m still thankful for my previous career because it taught me how pornstars last so long, but there are definitely some holes in my sex toolbox that could use filling.
That’s where Revolutionary Sex comes in.
I want to create a deeper connection with my wife, and, considering how much I love sex, I figured sex would be a great way for both of us to bond. I had a feeling my jackhammer thrusting and giant cumshots turned her on, but did they really make my relationship better?
Alex’s book helped connect the dots between my sexual chemistry and relationship success. I’m thankful for the help he’s given me, so here’s my full review of Revolutionary Sex.
Revolutionary Sex’s strength is that it has a lot to offer. We’ve got a lot of great information on this blog, but there are some things that Alex is clearly a master on.
There are two areas of expertise that Alex goes balls deep on: female orgasms, and using sex to build your relationship.
She Can Come Too
I’ll admit, most of the information on my blog is about my experience.
In the porn industry, the majority of my focus was on lasting longer, shooting bigger loads, and, in general…being a fucking stud.
Despite what you might see on camera, porn girls aren’t having 100 orgasms an hour. Most of them are faking it, and even if they aren’t, they’re all exaggerating their reactions.
Thanks to the acting that goes into porn, my knowledge of the female orgasm is limited. I know that there are 5 different types of female orgasm, but I’m no anatomy professor.
My strategy for the female orgasm has been: last longer, and, eventually, she’ll orgasm. If you have sex for 30 minutes, she’s bound to orgasm at least once.
This strategy worked for a while, but by reading this book, I wanted to take my orgasm level up a notch. Alex did not disappoint, there are extensive chapters about the female orgasm.
The female orgasm section is amazing and includes:
- How To Make A Woman Come (Even If She’s Never Orgasmed)
- Special Tips For Women Who Can’t Come During Intercourse
- Multiple Orgasms and Stacking Orgasms – New Twists For Experienced Lovers
- Female Ejaculation (Squirting) – What Is It? And How To Do It
This is the complete section on the female orgasm. No matter how often your woman orgasms, or what technique you use, you will learn something new from this chapter.
As I said before, one of my flaws is that I’m not that good at bonding with my partner. My wife loves me, and we have a great relationship, but after being married for a long time, I need a new bag of tricks.
Fortunately, Alex included an entire chapter on relationships called “Together.” He describes it as “the most important chapter in this entire book”, and I can’t say I disagree with him.
The main point of “Together” is that sex and relationship health are tied together. Good sex will increase relationship quality and vice versa. They have a symbiotic relationship that benefits both when they work in sync.
One of the many “A-ha” lightbulb moments I had reading Revolutionary Sex was when I came across the “talking” section.
Alex clearly illustrates how the words you say during sex have a profound impact on your relationship.
I’ve always known the power of words, and have even written about how using positive affirmations can make you last longer, but I never made the connection between dirty talk and relationship health.
I realized if I use degrading words in bed, my wife will feel that way.
However, if I use loving, respectful, passionate language in bed, my partner will open up her heart to me during sex.
He even talks about arguments, and how you can easily wade through the struggle of fighting and lead right into the highly cherished “make-up sex.”
Who Will Benefit From Revolutionary Sex?
Truth be told, everyone benefits from Revolutionary Sex.
Alex is a masterful teacher who combines the precise problem-solving skills of a scientist with the sex experience of a masterful player to create one of the best sex books I’ve read…ever.
Guys who are in relationships (like me) will benefit from the bonding and connection sections.
Newbies (even virgins) will learn all about female anatomy from Alex’s section on the female mind and body.
Experienced men will learn the intricacies of sex and how to improve yourself to become a better lover.
Revolutionary Sex is the definite playbook on how to become a better lover. Click here to learn more.