There are a number of things that you can do in order to be more attractive to women, but honestly, some of them may not be what you are thinking right now.
The truth is that men and women are very different in what attracts them to one another.
The things that make women attracted to you are not even close to the things that make you attracted to women – well, except for a few attributes like confidence. Both sexes like that.
Regardless, here are things that make you attractive to women. There are more, but I thought that I would write about some of the more important yet less common ones:
#1: Money and Power
Let’s face it guys. Why does Donald Trump have such a hot wife? Is it because of his good looks? Come on. We all know why. It’s because of his money and power.
Look at all the other guys’ wives who are running for president. Which one of them comes even close to Donald’s wife? No one. Why? Because he’s worth about 1,000 times more than anyone else.
Now I’m not saying that you have to be worth billions of dollars to get a beautiful, hot, attractive woman. But what I am saying is to use this information to your benefit.
So many guys think that if they can get the hot woman of their dreams, that THEN they will be happy. THEN they will feel like a million bucks. THEN they will be able to slay any dragon and conquer the world.
What I am telling you is that you’ve got to put your happiness ahead of any woman, no matter who it is. And what I am also telling you is that what will attract women to you is your powerful passion and desire to be successful.
But life is about the journey. Get happy now. Don’t wait for the girl.
So, start building your empire today no matter what that looks like to you. Dream big. Start now. Don’t settle.
#2: Purpose, Passion, and Persuasion
Women are really attracted to a guy who has a purpose, passion, and persuasion. The 3 ps. When you live your life from a place of doing or being someone greater than who you are right now, you’re living your life with purpose – with drive and direction. And you have to have a passion for what it is that you really want in life in order to pull it off – in order to achieve your dreams.
And along the way, you’re going to have to be persuasive. You’re going to have to learn the skills of a great salesman.
Why? Because all of us have to sell our ideas, or sell a product, or sell a vision in order to make money. You have to sell yourself to an employer on the job interview, and then you have to sell your new ideas when you are on the job.
If you’re an entrepreneur, you have to sell your ideas to your clients.
If you want the woman of your dreams to be your girlfriend or wife, you have to sell yourself to her too by being persuasive.
Being persuasive simply means learning to guide someone along a natural path of thought and logic in order to come to a natural conclusion – that conclusion being you and/or your ideas.
#3: Having A Sense Of Humor
Women love a guy who has a great sense of humor. THIS DOES NOT mean that you need to run out and buy the best joke book you can find and memorize jokes. As a matter of fact, that will totally turn off most women if that’s all you’ve got.
What I am talking about here is the kind of sense of humor where you are able to poke fun or make fun of certain things in life – common things. Humor comes from the surprise – the surprise of looking at something differently than others and then commenting on it.
Being funny is simply about connecting prior thoughts with the present moment conversation, in a way that may either be absurd, downright honest, or totally off the wall, but related.
If you want to develop a great sense of humor, you have to learn to be yourself. Don’t be afraid to speak your truth, but do it in a nice, funny, light way.
Develop your sense of humor and women will become very attracted to you.
#4: Keep Your Cool Under Fire
All women like to feel safe. And whether you are justified or not in getting angry, more than likely, it will scare the shit out of her either way.
Why would she think that even if you were getting angry at someone other than her? Because she will think, and rightfully so, that you have that kind of anger inside of you and that you could turn it on her too at any moment.
Whenever I coach guys on this topic, I tell them, be like James Bond. Does he ever get angry? Do you EVER see him lose his cool?
Do you know how attractive it is to a woman to be around a guy who never loses his cool?
Trust me – it’s very attractive. Be cool and calm as much as you can.
#5: Being Good in Bed and Lasting Longer
Last but not least, you’ve got to be good in bed in order to be attractive to women. Once she’s been in the sack with you, if you’re really good and can last a long time, she will want to call all of her friends and tell them about how great the sex is just to brag.
She may not provide all of the details of course, but trust me – women talk. And they are harder on us than we realize.
This is why being in shape, and doing the right things to last a long time in bed is so important.
So, you’ve got to get your act together between the sheets. You’ve got to learn to last a long time.